It’s my third week at university and I feel like perhaps the reality of it all is slowly sinking in. The dream like euphoria is seeping away. I’m waking up.
It felt like I was living one of those dreams I like to create myself when trying to get to sleep. The ones that are plausible, tangible, but still a dream, just with a hint of reality. That’s what this has been like. But now, it’s strange. It does slightly feel as if I am waking up, as if this actually is my reality now. Expecting to wake up back at home and this be a dream isn’t what’s going to happen. Because this is real. So very real.
And it’s been an experience. I have always gone on about how I have never truly lived in life. I’ve been surviving. But there have been moments that I can say have been lived not survived. For once anxieties haven’t kept me locked in a cage and it’s been surreal. I haven’t worried about something that it has prevented me from doing it, I’ve just done it.
Here I am a clean slate. No one here knows who I am, I can be whoever I want to be. Not that I am trying to be someone I am not, but I am just able to be myself free from expectations or prior knowledge. Perhaps I am truly waking up more than I realise.
I already have memories that I know I will have way down the line; moving in, my first shop, going out for the first time, first ring of fire, playing swivel-chair hockey, playing frying pan tennis, first film i made in filmmaking society, first lecture, first seminar, first workshop. All these memories have been made and sure there will be some memories that’ll be forgotten but others will be cherished. It’s all part of the experience.
But, now, suddenly I feel lonely. I feel so very far away my friends and family and am yearning for those relationships. In truth I just want a hug. I’m surrounded by people who are acquaintances, these people who I only know a little about and what I could do with is a friend. A proper friend, but I haven’t made that sort of bond yet. And right now I’m slightly worrying if I am going to make a proper friend. People always say you make friends for life at Unversity; I’m just hoping I make friends